4 BDSM Myths About women dispelled in 4 minutes.

If you are reading this then I want to assume that you are in the know when BDSM is mentioned but even if you don’t know much about BDSM.

What is BDSM?

Straight to it! BDSM is a group of six words shortened into four (4) words -BDSM for convenience. BDSM is a term used to describe certain aspects of sex that can be split into these major groups that make up the acronym BDSM: bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism.

Like most sexual preferences, women have been stereotyped to certain believes that are not true, and the following points are some of the BDSM sex stereotypes attached to women and you are encouraged to do away with this stereotypes.

BDSM is a form of Abuse to Women.

Well I don’t think so, What differentiates abuse and the practice of BDSM is Consent, Consent is the most important factor of engaging in BDSM.
Further more, Consent should be granted at every stage – which means that both parties should be able to communicate before, during, and after a scene or moment to make sure everyone is on the same page. This applies to when anyone male or female is practicing BDSM.
It is worthy of note that BDSM in a healthy, consensual environment is not abuse to anyone either man or woman as long as there is consent, BDSM is a physical manifestation of desires and urges, no matter how dark or intense.

It is worthy of note that BDSM in a healthy, consensual environment is not abuse to anyone either man or woman as long as there is consent, BDSM is a physical manifestation of desires and urges, no matter how dark or intense.

Female Dominants Hate Men!

Nothing differentiates a female dominant from a male dominant, submission by men is no less gratifying and fulfilling for women than it is for men. Women who prefer the dominant role enjoy their male partners to the brimming extent of their communicated agreements. OK! I know some of the more sadistic women enjoy inflicting pain on their male subs, talking about inflicting pain on the penis and balls and the like, but as long as it is consensual, you can be rest assured that those men love taking whatever their Dominant dishes out. So NO! Female dominants do not necessarily hate men.

Women who practice BDSM had abusive backgrounds.

This is not true at all, I know 50 shades of grey gave that impression but it is important to note that some women who practice BDSM have no history of receiving of abuse nor abusing anyone.

Women who practice BDSM have no respect.

This is also not true in any form. BDSM like every other intimate activity could be separated from your regular activities, to respect people and their being is a general attribute that does not have anything to do with your sexual preference. If anyone is being disrespecting, it should not have anything to do with their sexual lifestyle.

There are so much more stereotype ideas about women that are totally baseless, to be sure about any concept especially BDSM, education is key, this does not mean you have to sit in a class, there are several healthy educational materials available on our blog to get you educated on the subject of BDSM amongst other sex related topics, just search and get to yourself educated.

READ: THINGS TO TRY OUT IF YOU ARE NEW TO BDSM