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4 kinky sex positions you should try with a handcuff

If you are here then I guess you find the thought of cuffs interesting. Honestly, using handcuffs during sex is one of the most adrenaline pumping sexual activities if you know the right kinky sex positions. Honestly I see it as a therapeutic sexual activity. Being in control all the time can be stressful, don’t you think? Trying to control and take care of everyone and everything, are you not tired? I know you are, so why not give yourself a break and allow yourself be taken care of.

Hand over the control to someone else today and focus on your pleasure alone. Treat yourself to cuffs with a partner by trying out these wonderful kinky sex positions that will definitely drive you both wild.

Lose control with these kinky sex positions

The Swirl

Lose control with any cuff of your choice tied to your bed post if you bed has a bed stand. Or use a bed restraint with emphasis on the wrist only. Then have your partner blow your mind (not just literally). Have your partner tease, flick, kiss and bring you to the edge of orgasms and back. You can bring in a sex toy to make it more exciting. Believe me, you wouldn’t forget this in a hurry.

Queening in Bondage

Ladies, this is the time for you to sit and own your throne. In this kinky sex position, the submissive partner is on the bottom with wrists bound above his head. (It can be a man or a woman) while the woman sits on his face.

This position is known as “Queendom” or sitting on his face. An oral sex position where the woman sits on her partner’s face and rides him during oral sex, only this time with his hands cuffed. The type of Queen I want to be.

The fun part about this position is that it can be modified to the cowgirl position with the cuffs of course. Now, who else wants to get tied up?

The kinky missionary

Whoever said missionary was boring has not tried it the kinky way. Let’s talk about losing control. Lie on your back in the regular missionary position, hands overhead and cuffed. You can up your game with a second pair of cuffs or bed restraints to get into place. And enjoy yourself Queen. Here, you may not to do much work girl, just relax, as long as you trust your partner.

One thing I love most about this position is the intimacy it brings and the opportunities to explore other exciting kinky things. The DOM can talk dirty here, kiss intimately or even add other sensations like using a nipple clamp to spice things up especially if the submissive is into restraints and pain.

Standing position

There are so many fun things that can be done in this position, plus it is easy to try. Find a spot like a hook against the wall where you can handcuff your partner’s hands while standing up. You can also use two different hooks to spread the cuffed or tied hands apart as you like. Now, in this position as a worthy submissive, it is up to the dominant to begin the task of teasing.

It’s time to up the ante. Hands restrained, now is the time to play with different sensations like using a blindfold. Blindfolds are always a tease and require a certain amount of trust because you never know what to expect next. I can give you an idea of how to begin. Kiss your submissive slowly beginning from any position you like. (that’s the essence of a blindfold) (S)he won’t expect it. You can begin from kissing the navel and trace lines with your lips to different body parts. Massage her breasts and tease her nipples and body parts with a tickler (ooh girl). Play with sensations: warm oil from a massage candle, an iced metal butt plug to fill up her butt still not forgetting to give wet kisses while at it. Don’t forget the oral.

There are lots of exciting things to try out in this position. Always remember that. The fun thing about being in this position is that this can go on for as long as you want until the submissive says the safe word to put an end to it.  

Still wondering why you should try handcuffs, I bet these four kinky modified sex positions must have filled you with some ideas. But before you allow yourself get tied up like a lamb ready to be slaughtered for a sacrifice, make sure you have these two important things.

  1. Trust– you don’t want to get tied up by any Tom, Dick or Harry you know. You don’t want to be used for a ritual or anything close.
  2. A safe word– when things get out of control, you don’t want to keep shouting STOP, frankly you need something else; a word you both must have agreed on. Make sure you have one planned before now. Learn how to choose a safe word here.

A bonus tip, always use the right toys for your play. Make sure they are safe, secure and tested. Also, if you are using cuffs make sure you know where those keys and if you are bound with a rope, make sure you can untie it in an emergency. Honestly, you don’t want to re-enact the Gerald’s game movie. Stay safe.

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