7 BDSM Props For Beginners

In this post, I will be sharing 7 BDSM props fit for beginners. Like other sexual orientations there is a beginners stage which appears to be a learning stage where you first get a grip on the basics before diving into the mainstream experience.

It is important to note that BDSM is an acronym of 4 letters to describe 6 words which describe the participants and the roles they play.

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Bondage and Discipline : Bondage is the act of restricting or restraining a person physically while discipline is basically some disciplinary measures put in place by a dominant person for the submissive person. There are usually set of rules usually designed to be broken easily and intentionally in order to effect the disciplinary measures put in place by the dominant person for the submissive.

Sadism and Masochism : Sadism refers to the desire of the dominant person to inflict pain on the submissive while Masochism is the desire to be inflicted with pain, there are some people who enjoy the concept of being in both situations (masochism and sadism) and they inter-switch these roles as they please, They are called Sadomasochists

Submissive and Dominant : These refers to the roles assumed when having a bdsm play. There has to be a submissive who give the dominant the right to lord it over the submissive without questioning.

There are so many bdsm props, however the ones you will be seeing below are the basic things you need to explore your kink desires. First, it is important to note that you don’t have to get all of this props at once, this post is just to let you know the simple things you can start with!

Hand-Cuffs

Hand-Cuffs or simply cuffs are very popular in the bdsm world, they provide basic restrictions or restraints to the hands or ankles if you choose to restrict the legs too, They come in different materials ranging from silicon to leather, fur, metal and so on.

The Luxury Leather cuffs according to its name is made from the original leather, its finishing detailing scream class and luxury. It is also firm and will not snap easily even when the sub is trying to break out.

Paddles/Whips/Floggers

These are objects usually made of leather or other materials used by the dominant to inflict pain on the submissive. They come with different designs. Sometime, the paddles are inscribed with the terms the dominant calls the sub.

The Flirty leather paddle is a double layered paddle that give that intense spank, and because it is layered the produces a loud spank that will pleasure both the dominant or the submissive.

Shibari ropes

The act of restraining a person using Shibari ropes is an artistic form of bdsm from the Japanese origin. There are different forms of enjoying this art of restriction or restraint, some people get maximum pleasure from watching another person get tied, while some enjoy getting people tied, others enjoy being tied.

If you are not conversant with the shibari bdsm art, you can use the shibari ropes as an extension for your other retrains like cuffs.

Fur tickler

The Fur tickler is a wand like object with furs on it, it is used to tickle or tease the erogenous zones of a person to pleasure especially when they are being tied or cuffed.

Switch Bdsm set

The Switch bdsm set is for beginners in bondage and restriction play, it contains 3-part adjustable silk bondage set for blindfolding, wrist restriction and ankle-leg restriction and 1 furry butt plug for prepping the butt for anal play- Note that when using the butt plug you should use a water-based lubricant.

Deluxe Bdsm Bondage Kit

If you are looking for stimulation and restriction in one set then this kit is perfect for you. It is perfect for first time bondage fun lovers.

It includes The following:

• Rocket Vibrator
• Padded Silk Blindfolds
• Leather Cuffs
• Cute Fur Tickler

50 Positions of Bondage Card Game

Often times, bdsm lovers run out of ideas on how to spice their relationship, so this is where the 50 positions of bondage comes in! With 50 bdsm game ideas, you will never run out of ideas with your kink partner!

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