Who doesn’t want to be the guy or girl that gives you the best sex ever? The wild look on your partner’s face after you have taken them to cloud 9 and beyond is complete bliss. But, the ability to please your partner like a true lover is not something that happens by choice. To be a good lover you need to know how to listen to your partner. Listen to the language of her body, the words she says and the non-vocal sounds too.

You want her pussy to tingle whenever she thinks of you, you want her to keep thinking of the badass sex you had, and how you made love to her mind as well as her body. Then you have to be a lover not just a thruster. I’m not asking you to forfeit your pleasure because you are trying to appease her, no way. I’m talking about giving her the best sex ever that makes her so aroused and ready to please you in return. Turning on her wild streak in the bedroom .

Well, let me cut the chase and get right to it, grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride.

1. Make her feel desired

How? You have got her naked and vulnerable and I get that you both want to have sex but don’t be in a rush. Spend time worshiping her body, treat it like a temple (it doesn’t matter how many times you have seen it). Kiss, stroke and explore every part of her body. Take your time while you are at it, remember that you are an explorer in discovery land. Stimulate her mind with your words; genuinely compliment her body parts and the effect it has on you. Don’t give fake compliments just because LARA asked you to pay a compliment. She needs to feel desired by you. That she is the only woman you would want to be quarantined with if the world ever goes on lock down again. If you want to make her wild in the sheets, stimulate her mind first.

2. Stop rushing the foreplay

Foreplay is not the side dish, it is the main meal. It’s what determines if you would want anything after the main meal. A good foreplay session should last for a minimum of 20 minutes. Yes, I said it. Just in case you don’t know your girl would not cum easily from your magical penis, she needs more. Only 15% of women would orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Spend more time on foreplay to get her mind and body ready to receive your thrusts. PS: Foreplay is not restricted to just kissing, oral and making out, be sexually creative. Check out these creative foreplay tips to try out with HER to get her freak on. Ayyyyyy!

3. Pay attention to her clitoris

If you feel the penis is very sensitive to touch then you should meet the clitoris, also known as a tiny penis. The clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, which is double the amount of nerve endings in the penis. That’s a lot of sensitivity, but what would you expect from an organ made solely for pleasure. Show more love to the clitoris, kiss, flick and suck it. Want to have her screaming your name? Apply a clit sensitizing cream on the clitoris to increase sensations. I bet you, her legs would shake from each touch plus she would be so turned on and eager to please you.

4. Use a finger vibrator 

Do you know how magical your fingers are? I bet you don’t. While most women are not big on fingering applying the right techniques with some tools will make her quiver (in a sexy way).  Apply lubes on your finger vibrator and flick it over her clitoris. Make her feel the vibrations on her clitoral hood and clit. Is she warmed up enough? Insert your finger into her vagina with the finger vibrator and stimulate her g-spot. Her fingers may be clawing into your skin now, but don’t stop just yet, have fun.

5. Mix up with dirty talk

Sweet talk is sweet but dirty talk is sexy. And right now we want to get her wild so we have to add dirty talk to the mix. But, finding a balance is key because too much of sweet talk or dirty talk alone can be boring.

“Oh baby, you are so sweet. Your vagina feels new every time we have sex. I love the way you smell. You are so sexy, I love staring at your tiger marks all day. Moan for me baby, I love the way you scream like my naughty little ho. My thick sexy slut. I love you so much”

Get the picture? Some women may find this a little off and not reciprocate. But, if she loves it you would know through her reaction when you talk. Listen to her body.


6. Be adventurous

Nothing beats changing positions at will during sex, especially the unplanned ones. From the missionary switch to the spooning position to other positions that go with the flow. Sex is a vibe, don’t disrupt the flow. Be adventurous in bed and try something new every time. Make it an experience for the both of you.

7. Try aphrodisiacs

Aphrodisiacs can take her wild freak from 10 to a 100. While you are getting ready to blow her mind, get her body and sex organs ready for sex. Taking an aphrodisiac like the naughty girl aphrodisiac one hour before sex works magic. It increases circulation of blood flow to the vagina. This will make her aroused, dripping wet and activate her wild streak activated for sex.

There are more tips to turn on her her wild streak in the bedroom but these are our top seven. They are easy, effective and a guarantee. I hope this helps you. If you are ready to meet new people , join SWITCH the first BDSM social network in Nigeria. Unleash your fantasies in a discreet and fun environment. SWITCH today.

About Author /

Lara is an erotic writer and modern day sex and relationship educator. Sensual, multifaceted and a reincarnated soul is how she describes herself. When she is not relieving her imaginations or taking vain selfies, she is on Instagram at Larasensations teaching how to own your pleasure.

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