Dear Mahogany: I can only orgasm by yourself, What do I do?

Dear Mahogany,

For a while I have been able to bring myself to climax when I touch my but it has been a struggle when I am doing it with my partner. it s becoming a concern, should I just stop or is there a solution, Please help.

Hey dear!

Your concerns are valid and you deserve to experience the kind of pleasure you experience alone when you are with your partner.

To begin, You are not alone! most women can’t orgasm from penetrative s3x alone, but while that’s true, there can also be other factors responsible for your inability to climax during s3x with your partner.

Here are a few tips that can help you make the most of your intimate moments:

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Check other factors

When it comes to enjoying the all round pleasures of intimacy, a number of things have to be considered.

  • Are you comfortable in your skin around your partner?
  • Are you really attracted to this person s3xually?
  • Are you afraid of anything?

-%Answer all these then keep reading.

Its Mind Shift Time

If you have addressed the above questions and non of them is the issue then you are welcome to this slide! In simple terms, our bodies and brains create pathways through repetition, So, the fact that you masturbate frequently and climax when you do so has made your body used to climaxing only when you are alone.

To resolve this, you might want to get use to being with your partner more often than riding solo.

What makes solo moments special

In getting more intimate with your partner than riding solo, you may need to engage your mind on what makes the alone time special? Could it be that you are more carefree about your environment? do you imagine a role in head? do you use extra or less lubes when you are alone? Note this things and have a conversation about them with your partner, that way he/she can explore familiar ways of pleasuring you.

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Don’t pressure yourself

I totally understand how you feel when you have been experiencing that leg shaking climax alone but you can’t seem to get close to it when you are with someone you care about.

However, the focus should be more on pleasure and not just on reaching orgasm.

The pressure of “reaching” orgasm alone can make the whole thing harder. so resist the urge to go after orgasm at all cost, just like every good thing, the orgasm will come but dont pressure yourself, just enjoy yourself.

However, the focus should be more on pleasure and not just on reaching orgasm.

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