Effective Steps to a great erotic massage
Have you ever been handed a massage oil and you were totally clueless on what what to do or you were just rubbing the body without any direction? well you are about to become a professional after reading this article.
Get comfortable
To begin, Pick a comfortable place you would like to massage your partner, any where is fine as long as you have your space to yourselves without any distraction. Dim the lights if necessary just make sure the scenery of your massage venue is as comfortable as possible and you can have your partner disrobe and lie face-down on a towel or firm bed. Make a playlist of his/her favorite romantic songs, you can mix it with some of yours too.
Get an erotic massage oil
Start with picking up a nice erotic body massage oil, this oils have special scents that further stimulate sexual interests, so you definitely need this as a major prop!
Light Aromatic candles
Dimming the lights and lighting a few aromatic candles can spark things up by a 100%! Set the candles up at strategic points of the room and let the scents serenade the atmosphere. Another thing lighting scented candles does is that it increases the your partners confidence in your skills.
Slow and steady…
For at least the first 20 minutes of an erotic massage, it should simply look like any old regular massage. You shouldn’t head straight to massage their butt or private and sensitive parts. You initial goal within the first 15-20 minutes is helping them relax, so by the time you proceed to massaging their erogenous zones, they’re in a physical and mental space to fully receive you.
Muscle massage
Spend at least 2-3 minutes on each area before moving to the next, do not be in a hurry! While massaging the muscles use the hill of your palm to apply pressure gently
Start Teasing
Teasing is the act of touching around the sensitive areas of the person you are massaging without actually touching the parts. To tease perfectly, Get really close to touching their privates without actually touching them. This means instead of going straight for the nipples, massage around the breast. Instead of going straight for the vagina or penis, you massage the crease where the thigh connects to the rest of your body. With this their sensitivity is super heightened.
Teasing heightens their sensitivity super fast, and you can be sure there is no slowing down from here…
Moving forward
Once you’ve teased them long enough, then and only then do you get to actually touch their sensitive or erogenous parts. By this point they should be high on sexual tension, so even touching them lightly will be enough to make them moan ecstatically.
Start with slow circular motions on her clitoris, or start giving him a light hand job, where you’re barely gripping their penis. Once the allotted time has passed you can then do more, whether that means actual penetration, a firmer hand job, or oral just make sure their orgasm is your focus at this point
You may practice edging at this point (edging is consciously delaying climax/orgasm) However, it is advised to drop edging when trying to give an erotic massage, let your partner’s climax be your ultimate goal.
Massage is unique way of communicating your affection and when done well, it improves the bond in a relationship and boosts sexual libido. Go ahead and have fun giving or receiving the most amazing erotic massage!
