How to Enjoy Anal Sex
Anal sex even though not a novelty idea, still surfers a major backlash based on so many misconceptions by people who do not buy into the idea of “playing through the back door”.
It is important to note that anal sex is just like every other sexual intercourse, although it may have its own peculiarities, it should not be seen as an abnormal thing. It can be practiced by people of different sexual orientations as well.
So What Is Anal Sex
Anal sex refers to the sexual stimulation of the anus and rectum. Anal play can include external stimulation of the anus with fingers, toys or mouth, or penetration with fingers, toys or a penis/external genitals.
Anal sex is supposed to be fun!
One of the major misconceptions about anal sex is that, “it is normal for it to be painful” This is untrue on many levels. The concept of sex is pleasure inclusive, so there is no way it will be normal for it to be painful.
The following tips will ensure anal sex is a pleasurable ride rather than a painful endeavor.
USE LUBES!!
Using lubricants is an important aspect of any sort of penetrative sex and skipping this step will not allow you enjoy the sex to the fullest.
When picking lubes, make sure the lubricant is first water-based because water-based lubes are the best. secondly, make sure it is not the type that will dry-out quickly. Also check for the lubricants compatibility with other materials, This is important also as some lubes can ruin certain materials like latex, silicon which may spoil either your toys or latex condoms.
Make me wild organic lubricant ticks all the boxes for a great lubricant
Get an appropriate anal toy
Anal toys vary in materials, functionality and size. The best kind of anal toy you should get when trying anal sex for the first time is the butt plug. Butt plugs get your butt ready for anal sex proper. The key features consider using anal toys that has a flared base. It’s a good idea to start with smaller toys, and only work towards larger toys or a penis if you feel relaxed and ready.
Stimulate your erogenous zones
Although their are many nerve endings in the butt, however, you need to stimulate your other sensitive spots to get extra satisfying results. You can either use your hand or use a sex toy, For women, use a clitoral toy to stimulate your clit. While men can use a Self-thrusting massager while enjoying anal play. This will not just pleasure you, it will also make climax very possible.
Get a Clit Sensitizer
This is for women- The Clit sensitizer aids blood flow to the clitoris and also gives a tingling effect which helps you enjoy sex. Imagine enjoying anal stimulation while having your clit tingled? Bliss! Try this tip and thank me later!
Use clean toys please!
There are so many reasons you may want to dive straight to using your toys without disinfecting it, but resist the urge to use your toys when you haven’t cleaned it. Get a designated toy cleaner and you are good to go. You are at risk of infection causing bacteria, do not let pleasure lead to your pain, take precaution and dis-infect your toys before use.
All of the above tips may not be useful to you if you do not practice patience in your sex, patience is key and it also allows you to discover and learn how your body works. It is often said that for you to receive love, you have to love yourself first, the same goes with learning your your body, you have to know how it works before another person can pleasure you accordingly.
