IS MASTURBATION BETTER THAN SEX?
Why do people compare sex with masturbation? The beauty of sex is not achieved by ripping each other’s clothes apart, long extreme foreplay and a quick explosive orgasm. The beauty of sex can only be achieve through the act of patience and exploration. Sex is an art, and only a patient, skillful and diligent artist would be able to produce a masterpiece.
With sex, you could have all the mind blowing activities and ideas you may want to try with your partner. But if you are not patient and discipline enough to deliver such intense masterpiece that requires so much skill and precision, your erotic fantasy would flop. Hence you hear some people say sex is overrated and masturbation is key. But that is not true.
You cannot compare the art of solo pleasure to dual pleasure, they are two different feelings. Although with solo pleasure like masturbation, you could experience more intense and gratifying satisfaction than with dual or multiple pleasure like sex. This is because, in solo pleasure, it is just you, your imagination and fantasies. But with dual or multiple pleasure you’ve got a partner or partners.
During masturbation, you imagine and know what you want, what you want to feel, where you want to be touched, how you want to be touched, and you single handedly deliver all these ideas to your body, and the resulting outcome is epic. But have you ever wondered why this is different when you have a partner?
I have 3 basic answers to these.
- You are not relaxed.
- You are not patient.
- You are with the wrong partner.
I will start with number 3.
- PARTNER:
When you are with the right sexual partner, who you completely trust, sex would be different, you can go as many rounds as you want to, and explore as many activities as you want to. With the right partner, who also knows how to unlock the key to an erotic masterpiece, you would experience complete ecstasy. With the right partner, you will experience total relaxation, zero anxiety and you will have all the patience and determination to explore both yourself and that person. Your body would know when you are with the right sexual partner.
- RELAXATION:
You could be with the right sex partner and not be relaxed. That is psychology. A lot of people have been brain washed that sex is dirty, some have been threatened with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and eternal condemnation. You need to relax and do away with myths and stick only to facts. Also you need to explore your body, know what you want and what you desire to feel. There are some activities and exercises to help you relax. They say communication is key, so you have to tell your partner what you want to experience, I say show him what you want. Give him a show, make him watch you pleasure yourself in a solo activity while sipping his favorite drink. Show him how to get you to the peak of orgasmic ecstasy.
- PATIENCE:
Sex is an art, and every fine masterpiece would require patience and discipline. You need patience to know your body and needs, you need patience to know your partner’s body and needs. With patience, you will get to the point where you own every aspect of your body and that of your partner and then, you will reach the highest height of orgasmic ecstasy.
Achieving orgasmic ecstasy takes patience, skill and diligence.
I know masturbation is pleasurable, but I would rather have the feel of another hand on me, experience as we exchange body heat, and feel the taste of another’s sweat than the singular act of solo pleasure.
