9 Tips on how to give a blowjob
The thought of giving a blowjobor fellatio is sometimes an intimidating thought for some of us ladies, but it is quite easy and enjoyable not only for him, but also for you.
Stop thinking of it as a job
It is important to remind yourself that this isn’t a boring job that you have to do. It is fun and interesting and can be extremely pleasurable not only for Your partner but for you as well.
Get comfortable
Find a position you’re comfortable in. It’s not compulsory he is standing and you’re on your knees. While this position may be very useful as it increases blood flow to the penis thereby making his penis harder, it isn’t the only position you can give a blow job in. You can have him lie down or sit, just find a position that makes you comfortable because this eliminates your chances of getting tired too easily.
Wet your lips
Do not put his penis in your mouth if it is dry. Wet your lips or drink water. Then wrap it around your teeth. Licking an ice cube is a sexy way to go about it. Use saliva and make sure your mouth stays wet. This makes the mouth slippery and reduces friction. Then feel that dick fill up your mouth.
Make eye contact
Men love it when you make eye contact with them. Look him in his eyes as you take his dick as far into his mouth as you can, maintain eye contact for a few strokes.
Use your hands
You don’t have to take it all in, you may not be able to handle it. This is okay and nothing for you to feel sad or ashamed about. Remember, the penis and the mouth are not the same in size or length. Besides, we have gag reflex and this may prevent you from taking it all in. Use lubrication or saliva on your hand, beginning from the root of the penis and strike while having your mouth on the tip.
Do not ignore the tip of the penis
The glans penis I.e the tip or head has a lot of nerve endings and is the pleasure centre of the penis. It is comparable to the clitoris. Stimulating the tip is the key to his orgasm. While you may want to take his full length in, do not forget the tip. Bob up and down the penis and take some time to tease the tip with your tongue.
Do not use your teeth
It is important to remember to keep your teeth away. Do not use your teeth in grazing him, it can be a total turnoff and it causes pain that is unrelated to pleasure. Wrap your mouth around ur teeth before you start your strokes. Although a LITTLE teeth is acceptable but remember to keep it in check.
The frenulum
The frenulum is the place where the head Of the penis and the body or shaft of the penis connect. The frenulum contains a lot of nerves and is also a pleasure spot for him. Wrap your mouth a little below the frenulum so your lips and fist meet, then move your mouth and hand in a rhythmic motion while using your tongue to tease the head Of the penis.
Explore
You shouldn’t only Bob up and down his penis, you can also lick it like an ice cream. Men love this. Also, explore his body. Rub your hands between his thighs, his scrotum, his perineum (the space between his balls and butthole) is quite sensitive too. Just before he orgasms, tug on his testicles and watch him go off with a bang.
Remember it isn’t a banking job so take your time and enjoy it. You can also touch yourself while sucking his dick, use suction and keep in mind that men are different, so ask your partner what turns him on.
