The Best Guide To Mastering Edging For A More Satisfying Orgasm

Edging has earned its spot among the most intimate things fun-loving couples can incorporate in their intimate life for a stronger orgasm.

Edging is common intimate practice in BDSM although most vanilla couples have claimed to have enjoyed the practice as well. Edging can also be practiced solo and it does not matter whether you are male or a female, it can be enjoyed by all if you know how to go about it.

What is Edging?

Edging which is also called intense teasing, surfing, peaking, and so on is the practice of stopping yourself or your partner from reaching orgasm right when you or your partner is about to fall into sexual climax (Orgasm).

Some school of thought has termed edging as the best way to experience body shaking orgasms.

3 Ways To Try Edging

1. With a partner
2. Solo
3. With a Vibrator

Edging With a Partner

• The first thing to do is to try getting your partner aroused using the easiest method that turns them on (If you don’t know ask) You could suck, lick or stock their erogenous zones, whatever gets them going.

• Make sure they’re vocal or give clear cues about when they’re going to climax. When they are about to climax, you then Reduce or completely stop stimulation until the urge to climax stops

• Start the stimulation process again, then get them close to climax again and again until they’re ready to climax. Once they are ready, you keep stimulating till they release the built up orgasm.

Edging Solo

• The first thing you want to do is to get comfortable; Light an aromatic candle if you have to, play your favorite erotic play list, get your lubes ready, check the door locks, turn down the lights an so on.
• Stimulate your clit or stroke your penis or whatever else you know can make you climax.
• When you feel like you’re about to come, stop stimulation. Take your hands away or slow down your movements. Take deep breaths or open your eyes, if you need.
• Start touching yourself again, or masturbating faster. After your break, repeat the first 3 steps again. Do this until you are feel ready to orgasm.
• Now, you can allow yourself without stopping till you reach orgasm. You will notice your orgasm lasts longer or feels more intense. Pay close attention to the feeling and see how edging makes the difference in how much pleasure you feel.

Edging With A Vibrator

Using a vibrator to pleasure yourself With a vibrator can be very interesting and extra stimulating, If you are used to a particular pattern of stimulation, you are more likely to get a vibrator that will do the trick for you.

With a vibrator, you can explore different angles, levels of penetration, vibration speeds and rhythms, and much more. all you need is the use of your imagination!

So when using a vibrator, practice the same hold and proceed pattern of delaying orgasm explained in the solo edging example for a maximum pleasure experience.

Benefits of Edging

Intense pleasure has a lot of benefits to the soul and body, and like every pleasurable exercise, edging has it peculiar benefits.

1. It reduces feelings of anxiety.

Most people especially women have attributed their anxiety feelings to the lack of knowledge on what truly pleasure them. Edging provides you the opportunity to know exactly what pleasures you and how fast or slow you can reach orgasm.

Learning more about body through edging can give you more ideas about your sexuality and confidence in approaching your partner about any questions you have or issues you face in your sex life. This can translate into better sexual health outcomes and more fulfilling sex life.

2. Edging Reduces the Focus On penetration during partnered sex.

In a  study taken in 2018, of more than 1,000 women found that many (about 36.6 percent) can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, while a scanty 18 percent only can reach orgasm through sexual intercourse alone.

These results show the importance of trying activities like edging which allows you to explore numerous ways to pleasure yourself. Even if you are part of the few who can come from penetrative intercourse, learning to control when you want to orgasm can bring an extra bit of fun to the experience.

3. It helps people with Pre-mature Ejaculation.

Edging is a perfect way to train people with behavioral pre-mature ejaculation to last longer. When you stop stimulation just when you are about to orgasm, you are gradually helping your body getting used to the pleasure without necessarily reaching orgasm in a short period of time.

Are There Side effects?

Epididymal Hypertension

Another common misunderstanding about edging is that it leads to epididymal hypertension which occurs in men, known better by its popular nickname “blue balls.”

These are false claims about the “side effects” that can occur when you get aroused but don’t come. But blue balls don’t have any long-term health effects on men’s sexual health. In fact, people with penises can relieve “blue balls” by using the Valsalva maneuver. Just hold your nose and exhale until you feel like your ears are clearing out.

In fact, people with penises can relieve “blue balls” by using the Valsalva maneuver. Just hold your nose and exhale until you feel like your ears are clearing out.

One major side effect to consider with edging is the abuse of th

,e practice. Do not delay someone’s pleasure without their consent. 

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