Dear Mahogany, My Wife Wants More Sex

Dear Mahogany,

My wife want more sex. When we have sex, she will insist  we go like three rounds before resting.  I can only go once but she is not OK with that.  She called me and asked me if I have been sleeping with other women outside, and the truth is I haven’t done anything outside. How can I handle this, please.

-K

Dear K

Thanks for reaching out. We apologize for the delayed reply.

There are two possible reasons behind your wife’s actions.

1. There’s the chance that her libido is higher than yours. In that case, your libidos are incompatible.
2. The second possibility is that you both had more sex in the past and the noticeable change is responsible for her concern.

Either way, talking about it is the first step. If you have been struggling to keep up with her sex drive, take this chance to tell her. Marriage is a long-term relationship that requires intimacy and understanding. Understanding each other’s sex drive will keep that intimacy alive.

Love,

Mahogany

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