Everyone has fantasized about one thing or the other, it could be about vacation, landing a life-changing job. Some of the fantasies a person has may eventually become a reality in the future. However, it is important to approach such desires with caution and ensure that they are acted upon safely, consensually, and in a way that is respectful to oneself and others involved. When it comes to sexual fantasies it is essential to recognize that not all fantasies or scenarios that a person may imagine should necessarily be acted out in reality.

Sexual Fantasy

It is a mental image or scenario that creates or enhances sexual arousal by allowing you to explore your deepest sexual desire, fears, or memories in a safe and controlled manner. Fantasies do not always reflect our desires or intentions in real life. It can be a private or personal expression of one’s sexuality and imagination, and may not necessarily reflect actual behavior or desires. It is essential to understand that having sexual fantasies is a normal and healthy part of human sexuality, and does not indicate anything about a person’s relationship or emotional state.

TOP TEN FEMALE SEXUAL FANTASIES 

The female imagination is unique and diverse and can vary widely depending on your preference or desire. Let’s explore common female fantasies and discover new ones we can relate to or find appealing!

1. BDSM (Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sadism/masochism):

Some women enjoy taking on a dominant role and being in control, rather than always being submissive. Power play fantasies may stem from a desire to gain or relinquish control in various areas of life, such as personal relationships, work, or societal roles. For some women, this may involve imagining engaging in various acts with their partner, such as tying them up with ropes or cuffs, blindfolding them, spanking them with a paddle, dripping hot wax and fulfilling their desires, commanding them to perform sexual acts, and having their partner beg for their desires. [Read 7 BDSM Props for beginners]

2. Threesomes or Group sex:

Although this is a common sexual fantasy for both men and women. It is particularly exciting and a huge turn-on because the woman is the focus of multiple people’s desires. The sensory overload that comes with threesomes/group sex can be very appealing. There are more bits, smells, tastes, holes, poles, and sounds than in a one-on-one or solo sexual encounter. 

3. Exhibitionism (being watched or watching others):

An exhibitionist fantasy is characterized by the desire to be seen or watched during sexual acts. The idea of public sex, stripping, or masturbating in front of others turns you on. It is important to ensure that it is consensual and safe if you want to bring exhibitionism into your real life. You can safely explore this fantasy at sex parties, swingers clubs, sending nudes to your partner, or wearing sexy lingerie and putting on a sexy show for your partner.  

4. Voyeurism (watching others):

If you are turned on by the thought of watching others engage in sexual behavior such as getting naked, masturbating, or having sex then you are fantasizing about voyeurism. The excitement of watching others can just be as pleasurable as having sex, and the idea of seeing something you are not supposed to see can send your libido over the roof. If you want to practice consensual voyeurism, ask your partner if you can watch them undress and use a masturbator or play with other sex toys.

5. Role-playing (such as teacher/student, doctor/patient, etc.):

One common female fantasy is the desire to play a different character during sexual play. It could be anything from cosplay to a sexy nurse. It is a way for women to step outside themselves and embody a different persona. This can add excitement and novelty to sexual play and allow women to explore different aspects of their sexuality in a fun and playful way.

6. Novelty, Adventure, and public sex(in a risky or unconventional location):

This can include trying new sexual activities, such as wearing a butt plug or oral sex or having sex in new locations, such as on a beach or mountaintop. The thrill of the unknown and trying something new can lead to a sense of arousal and excitement.  When you are in a long-term relationship and need to keep things exciting, that’s where fantasy comes to play. 

7. Romantic or erotic scenarios:

Being desired, intimate, and romantic is a common fantasy, and it often involves long walks on the beach, candlelit dinners, couples games, and eye contact during lovemaking. Women want to be treated like royalty, and romantic gestures can make them feel significant and valued by their partners. Engaging in romantic activities can also add variety and excitement to a long-term relationship and help maintain a strong emotional connection.

8. Having sex with total strangers:

Some women enjoy the fantasy of having a spontaneous sexual encounter with a mystery man and indulging in wild, uninhibited sex at a random motel. The idea of being with a stranger can make them feel free to let go of their inhibitions without fear of judgment. The anonymity and excitement of the encounter can make it all the more enticing. As one woman put it, the idea of behaving like a sex addict with a stranger sounds not only inviting but also delicious, and the best part is leaving afterward without even knowing each other’s names.

9. Same-sex experiences (for people who identify as heterosexual):

A woman who fantasizes about sex with another woman may not necessarily identify as lesbian or bisexual. It’s also possible that the fantasy is simply a reflection of curiosity, experimentation, or a desire for something new and exciting. Female on-female sex focuses on oral and clitoral stimulation, and this is how many women orgasm, A fantasy about another woman could be about the desire to be pleasured in a way that women understand best or as simple as trying out a double-sided dildo.

10. Role Reversal (Pegging):

One of the most common female fantasies is to become a man for a night, in a man’s shoes or, more accurately, his boxers. They envision scenarios where they can wear his long trench coat and a cap with nothing underneath even down to the physical aspect of having a strap-on penis. The feeling of empowerment and the vulnerability of a man in such a situation can also be a major turn-on. In this fantasy, the man is playing the passive role typically assigned to women, although he may not enjoy it unless he’s willing to deal with the consequences.

In conclusion, There are countless other fantasies that women may have, and each woman’s desires are unique and personal. What may be a turn-on for one woman may not be for another. However, as long as both partners are enjoying themselves, exploring and fulfilling these fantasies can be a fun and exciting way to enhance the sexual experience.