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10 signs you may be into kinky sex

Tell someone you they are into BDSM or Kinky sex , and the first picture in their head is of you tied up and whipped mercilessly. That is not a bad image if you ask me, as long as I don’t get whipped like a thief that stole in the market, I’m fine. But, BDSM and kinky relationships are more than that.

Honestly, many of us have a kinky streak in us which we never get to acknowledge it. I bet 80% of us have tried something kinky in the bedroom we take to mean as normal. Sorry to burst your bubbles girl, you are into some kinky stuff, doubt me as you may, I will show you soon

And PSA kinky sex is not limited to you doing some Christian Grey and 50 shades kind of shit alone. Here are some BDSM roles you may want to try out

Well, if you are still confused, let me help you. If you have tried at least four out of any of these ten things then you may be kinky.

Signs you may be into kinky sex

  1. You like being called dirty names by your partner during sex. You crave for those names like “my slut”, or hearing those phrases like “grind me like a ho” and so on. You may not admit it all the time but you enjoy it and crave for it most times.

2. You like a little aggression between the sheets. When the sex is kind of rough and comes with lots of sexually exciting drama.

3. Spanking feels so damn sexy to you during sex. You like when your partner spanks your ass while penetrating you. It drives you wild; sometimes you even beg to be spanked. Nothing to be ashamed of, we beg too. Spanking never hurt anyone you know.

4. You enjoy being choked. We see you girl; asking him to choke you harder while riding him on top and you choking him too sounds like a kinky behavior to me. But, don’t sweat it; we all have kinky traits in us. Check out this guide to choking right.

5. Hair pulling comes easy to you during sex. Especially when the sex gets a little bit rough.

6. You have fantasized about getting tied up, whipped, cuffed and restrained. And even if you don’t when you are going to try, you know you will.

7. Your sexuality feels fluid. This is because your mind is filled with different fantasies. You have pictured yourself in different roles and sexes. One time as a little girl owned by her Master who pampers her and another time with a whip or paddle dominating your girl. You have these thoughts all the time and it is difficult not to see why.

8. Giving your partner orders on how to please you. Those times you change your voice and give your partner orders to perform sexual acts on you is kinky too. Stop ignoring it girl.

9. We see those hickeys girl. You are a biter and that is kinky. So whether it is a bite on their neck or other body parts, explore your kinky personality.  

10. Played out a fantasy involving a specific role. Maybe in your head or with your partner, but you enjoy it and is something you want to try.

Still think you are kinky? Think again, because if you get five out of these 10 signs, you are definitely kinky. It is nothing to be ashamed of, you have already ventured into the world of BDSM and you can continue exploring with the right partner.

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