i want a threesome but i don’t last long in bed
Hi Mahogany,
Any advice for a man who wants to have a threesome but doesn’t last that long in bed? I and my FWB (friends with benefits) want to try a threesome but I am freaking out that I may not last long and she wants it?
J, Lagos.
Hi J,
Your message made me smile and I’m glad to offer the help I can on your next sexual adventure.
Now, to be sure, I hope this threesome is what you are excited to try for yourself and not just to please your partner because it may not turn out as imagined. To have a successful threesome one thing you need to continually oil the engine is communication; Communication before, during and after the threesome.
You should check out this post for things you should know before you get a threesome.
If your threesome involves penetration with the other partner then you would need to up your game. Here are some things you can do
Take breaks
You don’t have to thrust from the beginning to the end. Take breaks and focus on other forms of sex that has nothing to do with penetration. Try oral sex, have your partner pleasure the other partner while you watch and just do other things.
Penetrate with a toy
If your partner has a vagina you can buy yourself more time by penetrating your partner with a g-spot toy while you play with her clitoris or get a toy that does both so you can focus on the third. This way she is getting more pleasure and you are buying yourself more time for your penis to get erect for the next line of action. The Mahogany’s rotating g-spot vibrator is a best-seller you should try.
Try sex aids
There is always an aid for every sexual issue. Wear the cock ring over the penis to make your erections harder and make you last longer. Plus she won’t even mind because her clitoris is getting pleasured at the same time.
- Use sex enhancers
You can apply a delay cream or take a power pill to help you last longer during penetrative sex. With this you wouldn’t have to worry about lasting long or not because you would last for as long as you want to.
These four easy tips combined will make you last longer during your next threesome sexual adventure. I would love to hear from you to know how it went.
